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Adab and Guidelines of Breastfeeding Based on Kitab Adab Perempuan
Zurita binti Mohd Yusoff¹, Normadiah binti Daud¹, Syarilla Iryani binti Ahmad Saany², Julaily Aida
binti Jusoh², Mai Nurul Ashikin binti Taib³, Mohamad Sabri bin Haron⁴
¹Faculty of Islamic Contemporary Studies, University Sultan Zainal Abidin (UniSZA), Terengganu,
Malaysia
²Faculty of Informatics and Computing, University Sultan Zainal Abidin (UniSZA), Terengganu,
Malaysia
³Faculty of Medicine, University Sultan Zainal Abidin (UniSZA), Terengganu, Malaysia
⁴Terengganu State Mufti Department, Terengganu, Malaysia
* Corresponding Author
DOI:
https://dx.doi.org/10.47772/IJRISS.2025.910000764
Received: 29 October 2025; Accepted: 07 November 2025; Published: 24 November 2025
ABSTRACT
Breastfeeding has frequently been discussed from both Islamic and health science perspectives. Breast milk has
been proven to be the best nourishment for infants, a divine gift from Allah s.w.t. to mothers. Within Malay
society, breastfeeding has long been a cultural practice among women, who not only observe it themselves but
also encourage their daughters to continue the same tradition. Advice and guidance are typically transmitted
orally from mothers to daughters.
This article aims to examine the breastfeeding guidelines and related fiqh rulings as presented by the author of
Kitab Adab Perempuan. Data were collected using document analysis based on the text of Kitab Adab Perempuan
and subsequently analysed through content analysis. The findings reveal that breastfeeding guidelines have been
systematically documented over time to help women refer to and comprehend essential aspects of breastfeeding.
The Kitab Adab Perempuan, authored by Imam Ahmad b. Ya’qub al-Johori, was once used as a syllabus for
female students at Malay Religious Schools in Johor and several other states. However, scholarly research and
academic discussions on this work remain scarce, signifying the need for more comprehensive studies.
Keywords: Ethics, Guidelines, Breastfeeding, Mothers Milk, Kitab Adab Perempuan
INTRODUCTION
Breastfeeding is an essential practice emphasised in Islam. It has long been discussed from both Islamic and
health science perspectives, as breast milk has been proven to be the best nourishment granted by Allah s.w.t. to
mothers for the benefit of their infants. In Malay society, breastfeeding has been a longstanding tradition
practised by women from one generation to the next. Besides practising it themselves, mothers have also
encouraged their daughters to continue this noble culture of breastfeeding. Such encouragement, advice, and
guidance are often given verbally, passed down informally from mother to daughter.
However, over time, these guidelines on breastfeeding began to be written and arranged systematically to help
women refer to them more easily and understand key aspects of breastfeeding more comprehensively.
In 1926, a book containing several chapters on breastfeeding guidance entitled Kitab Adab Perempuan (The
Book of Women’s Etiquette) was composed. The book was a Malay translation of an Arabic text by Ahmad b.
Ya’qub al-Johori an author renowned for producing several religious works used as textbooks in schools
under the Johor Religious Department. Kitab Adab Perempuan was later employed as a syllabus for female
students in Malay Religious Schools in Johor and several other states in Malaysia.
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The adab (ethics) and guidelines in the book reflect deeply moral values. The wisdom behind these etiquettes
and principles deserves to be explored and shared for the benefit of those involved in the practice of
breastfeeding. Hence, this study analyses the wisdom and guidelines on breastfeeding presented by the author.
This qualitative study employs document analysis as the primary method of data collection. The data were
extracted from the Kitab Adab Perempuan and analysed using content analysis techniques. The researchers
carefully examined the entire text and selected specific passages related to the themes of adab and breastfeeding
guidelines. The study utilised a Romanised transliteration of the original Jawi text to facilitate accurate
interpretation and analysis.
Background of Kitab Adab Perempuan
Kitab Adab Perempuan is a Jawi manuscript translated from Arabic into Malay by Haji Ahmad b. Ya’qub al-
Johori in 1926. Apart from his writing talent, Haji Ahmad b. Ya’qub al-Johori was also known as a prominent
chef who authored two recipe books entitled Medan Selera and Hidangan Terpilih collections of recipes he
compiled, tested, refined, and personally endorsed for their quality. Following his passing, his wife, the late
Hajjah Jamaliah, continued his culinary legacy through the family spice business al-Johori”, which remains in
operation today in Johor Bahru. In 2012, Shakesport Publishing reissued his culinary collection under the title
Nostalgia Medan Selera (Goodreads, 2022).
The Kitab Adab Perempuan was transliterated and republished by Akademi Jawi Malaysia in 2017, with multiple
print runs (Ahmad, 2019). The book comprises 31 lessons or chapters, beginning with “Marriage” and ending
with “Handicrafts”. The text is not a literal translation of the original Arabic but rather an adaptation
contextualised to the culture and lifestyle of the local Malay community. Generally, each issue in the book is
discussed concisely yet effectively, using a gentle and advisory tone suited to women’s nature. The religious
arguments (dalil) cited are also brief and easy to understand.
For instance, in discussing the mahr (dowry) — one of the rights of a wife — under the chapter The Obligatory
Rights of a Wife Over Her Husband, the author begins by emphasising that it is obligatory for a husband to pay
his wife the dowry decreed by Allah s.w.t. He then cites the Qur’anic verse:
“And give the women their dowries graciously, as an obligation decreed by Allah.” (Surah al-Nisa’, 4)
The author does not mention the specific surah or verse number in the text. This style mirrors the writing
conventions found in classical Malay manuscripts authored by scholars such as Tok Pulau Manis and Syeikh
Abdul Qadir Bukit Bayas (Zurita, 2017). This was because the general public of that period preferred concise
legal explanations without lengthy citation details.
Out of the 31 lessons contained in Kitab Adab Perempuan, five chapters specifically address the practice of
breastfeeding:
1. Lesson 10: Children’s Food
2. Lesson 11: Guidance for Mothers Who Breastfeed
3. Lesson 12: Rules of Breastfeeding
4. Lesson 13: Conduct When Breastfeeding Children
5. Lesson 14: Rules for Selecting a Wet Nurse
These chapters are written sequentially and interconnected in theme. Collectively, they may be categorised as
The Infant Breastfeeding Section. Lesson 10 introduces the importance of breast milk as the main source of
nutrition for infants, Lesson 11 provides guidance for nursing mothers, Lesson 12 discusses breastfeeding
methods, and Lesson 14 elaborates on the selection of wet nurses. The sequential arrangement of these chapters
allows readers to follow the subject matter easily and coherently.
Analysis of Breastfeeding Ethics and Guidelines in Kitab Adab Perempuan
Breastfeeding is a practice prescribed by Allah s.w.t., as mentioned in both the Qur’an and the Hadith of the
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Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. The benefits of breastfeeding are scientifically proven, not only for infants but also
for mothers. From a health perspective, breastfeeding helps the mother regain her physical form after childbirth,
assists in uterine contraction, reduces excessive bleeding, and strengthens the emotional bond between mother
and child (Zurita et al., 2019).
However, to ensure that breastfeeding is conducted properly and blessed by Allah s.w.t., mothers must observe
certain ethical and practical guidelines. In Kitab Adab Perempuan, five chapters discuss breastfeeding in detail
Children’s Food, Guidance for Nursing Mothers, Rules of Breastfeeding, Conduct During Breastfeeding, and
Rules for Choosing a Wet Nurse. From these five chapters, six important guidelines for mothers are identified
and elaborated upon below:
1. Understanding the benefits and virtues of breast milk
2. Maintaining the health of the nursing mother
3. Ensuring personal hygiene during breastfeeding
4. Managing an appropriate breastfeeding schedule
5. Observing proper breastfeeding conduct
6. Selecting a suitable wet nurse
Understanding the Benefits and Virtues of Breast Milk
Understanding the importance and virtues of breastfeeding is crucial for all women. Awareness of its benefits
encourages mothers to breastfeed wholeheartedly for the well-being of both mother and child. Only those who
appreciate the nutritional and spiritual value of breast milk will make every effort to breastfeed exclusively,
ensuring the infant receives adequate nourishment.
In Kitab Adab Perempuan, the author writes:
“It has been observed as one of Allah’s blessings that a mothers milk is a natural sustenance which completes
the life of her child. During pregnancy, the child lives by feeding on its mothers blood, and after birth, that blood
transforms into milk — how wondrous is Allah’s wisdom!” (Ahmad, 2019)
The author highlights that breast milk is a divine provision essential for the child’s survival a remarkable
manifestation of Allah’s wisdom. Modern science corroborates this understanding. Breast milk contains
antibodies that protect infants from infections, reducing cases of diarrhoea and other diseases compared to
formula-fed infants (The Asian Parent, n.d.). It also supports optimal brain development due to its rich content
of proteins, fats, and other vital nutrients (Consumers Association of Penang, 1990).
Furthermore, breastfeeding benefits mothers by lowering the risk of breast cancer, aiding uterine recovery, and
promoting healthy weight reduction after childbirth (Arini, 2013). Thus, scientific evidence affirms the truth of
the authors statement that breast milk is “the perfection of a child’s life.”
Maintaining the Health of the Nursing Mother
A mothers health both during confinement (nifas) and beyond is vital to ensure safe and effective
breastfeeding. An infant’s health can be adversely affected if the mother neglects her well-being, as illnesses
such as fever or the flu can easily transmit to the child. Even during illness, many paediatricians and lactation
experts encourage mothers to continue breastfeeding for the infant’s benefit.
In the context of modern pandemics such as Covid-19, nursing mothers must take additional precautions to
prevent infection for both themselves and their babies (Pandemik Covid-19: Cabaran Menyusukan Anak Buat
Ibu, 2020).
In Kitab Adab Perempuan, the author begins this discussion by stressing the importance of postnatal care:
“A mother should protect herself during the period of nifas from anything that may harm her health. She should
remain indoors for at least six weeks after childbirth, avoiding cold exposure, and wear warm clothing during
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cool seasons to prevent illness.” (Ahmad, 2019)
This passage recommends three key practices: avoiding harmful activities, staying indoors for at least six weeks,
and keeping the body warm. The Malaysian Ministry of Health reports that confinement periods vary by
ethnicity: Malay women generally observe 40–44 days, while Chinese and Indian women observe about 30 days
(Pemakanan Semasa Berpantang, Ministry of Health Malaysia).
Although certain postnatal customs lack direct religious proof, the advice to rest adequately after childbirth
remains medically sound. Medical studies show that women typically require 56–60 days postpartum for
complete recovery a period known as the postpartum stage (Hello Doktor, n.d.). During this phase, new
mothers experience significant emotional and physical adjustments.
From an Islamic perspective, mothers and infants are also encouraged to remain indoors temporarily to avoid
harm, as mentioned in the Hadith of the Prophet s.a.w.:
“There is no child born except that Satan touches it, whereupon it cries loudly due to Satan’s touch, except
Maryam and her son (Isa).” (Muslim)
In addition, the author prescribes a list of recommended foods for breastfeeding mothers, such as bread, porridge,
potatoes, milk, eggs, cauliflower, green beans, pumpkins, black radish, and ripe fruits. The best meats are goat,
veal, rabbit, chicken, and pigeon.
Conversely, mothers are advised to avoid excessive spices, immature fruits, salted vegetables, duck meat, dried
fish, and hard cheese — as these may harm the mothers or infant’s health. He further warns:
“Avoid consuming medicines without medical advice, for they may alter the nature of the milk and affect the
nursing child.” (Ahmad, 2019)
These insights align closely with modern nutritionists’ recommendations, which emphasise iron-, calcium-, and
protein-rich foods such as meat, liver, eggs, milk, and soybeans (Rita Rahayu, 2012).
Ensuring Personal Hygiene During Breastfeeding
A nursing mother must maintain personal hygiene to prevent infection and ensure her baby’s health. The author
stresses the importance of breast cleanliness to prevent blocked milk ducts:
“If the infant refuses to nurse because the nipple is blocked or hardened, the mother should gently cleanse the
nipple with warm water and a clean cloth until the obstruction is removed.” (Ahmad, 2019)
Beyond breast hygiene, mothers must ensure overall cleanliness of their bodies, clothing, and sleeping spaces.
Health guidelines from the University of Malaya Medical Centre recommend daily baths, wearing clean clothes,
and frequent handwashing — especially before handling the infant. Maintaining hygiene promotes comfort for
both mother and child and prevents bacterial infections.
Managing an Appropriate Breastfeeding Schedule
Breastfeeding can be exhausting because it demands much of a mothers time and energy. Disrupted sleep and
irregular meals may lead to fatigue and decreased milk quality. To maintain both physical well-being and milk
consistency, the author encourages mothers to establish a balanced breastfeeding schedule.
He writes:
“Many women nurse their infants throughout the day and night, especially whenever the child cries. This,
however, is a mistake that harms both the mothers health and the child’s well-being, for neither gains adequate
rest. Fatigue weakens the mothers milk and negatively affects the child.” (Ahmad, 2019)
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The Kitab Adab Perempuan further recommends breastfeeding the child seven or eight times daily, ideally every
three hours. Modern paediatric advice concurs: newborns generally require feeding every two to three hours
(Kent et al., 2012). A structured schedule benefits both mother and child by ensuring rest and sustaining milk
quality.
Observing Proper Breastfeeding Conduct
A mother must remain attentive during breastfeeding to ensure the safety and comfort of her baby. Negligence
during feeding could result in suffocation or choking. The author writes:
“Place the child on the lap and support it with the arm. Ensure the nose is not covered so that it can breathe
easily. Do not leave the nipple in the baby’s mouth once it falls asleep, for the remaining milk may curdle and
cause harm.” (Ahmad, 2019)
This passage underlines the importance of proper positioning and attentiveness during nursing to avoid accidents
and maintain hygiene.
Selecting a Suitable Wet Nurse
When a mother cannot breastfeed, Islam allows hiring a wet nurse, with the father responsible for payment. Allah
s.w.t. says:
“And if they are pregnant, then provide for them until they give birth. Then, if they breastfeed your children for
you, give them their due payment, and consult together in kindness. But if you face difficulties, then another
woman may breastfeed for him.” (al-Talaq: 6)
Historically, wet nursing was common among Arabs; even the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. was breastfed by
Halimatussa’diah. The author of Kitab Adab Perempuan emphasises that a wet nurse’s health, morality, and
personal character greatly influence the child’s development. He identifies several criteria:
1. Age: Preferably between 20 and 30 years old, ideally similar to the infant’s biological mother.
2. Experience: The wet nurse should be currently lactating or recently nursed her own child of similar age to
the infant to avoid digestive discomfort.
3. Physical health: The wet nurse should be neither too thin nor excessively obese, as both conditions may
impair milk quality or reflect undesirable traits such as laziness.
These guidelines demonstrate the authors profound awareness of health, psychology, and moral values
written nearly a century ago, yet still relevant today. His advice reflects the deep Malay concern for the child’s
spiritual, moral, and physical well-being.
Legal Rulings on Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is a command and an encouragement prescribed in the Quran. This is evident in Allah’s words:
“Mothers shall breastfeed their children for two complete years, for those who wish to complete the nursing
period. The father must provide for them and clothe them in a reasonable manner. No person shall be burdened
beyond their capacity. Neither mother nor father shall suffer because of their child. If both decide, by mutual
consent and consultation, to wean the child, there is no sin upon them. And if you wish to have your children
breastfed by another woman, there is no blame upon you, provided you pay her fairly. And fear Allah and know
that Allah sees all that you do.”(al-Baqarah: 233)
This verse outlines several important principles regarding breastfeeding. It prescribes that mothers should ideally
breastfeed their children for two complete years, though weaning earlier is permissible if both parents mutually
agree. It also affirms the fathers duty to provide financial support and permits the hiring of a wet nurse, who
must be paid fairly (Muhammad Rashid Rida, 2005).
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In Kitab Adab Perempuan, the author includes a subchapter entitled “The Obligation of a Mother to Breastfeed
Her Child.” At first glance, this statement may appear to contradict the Shafi‘i school’s position, which holds
that breastfeeding is not legally obligatory but rather encouraged.
According to Shafi‘i jurisprudence, a mother cannot be compelled to breastfeed her child if she refuses to do so,
unless in exceptional circumstances (al-Khin et al., 1992). Imam Zakariyya al-Ansari states that it is obligatory
for a mother to provide al-laba’ (colostrum) the first milk — only when it is medically essential for the child’s
survival.
Although the general ruling is that breastfeeding is not obligatory, it becomes wajib (compulsory) in situations
of necessity, such as:
1. When the infant cannot tolerate any milk other than the mothers due to illness or allergies.
2. When there is no other woman available to breastfeed the child, and formula milk cannot be obtained due
to poverty or other constraints.
3. When the father cannot afford to hire a wet nurse.
In the subchapter “The Obligation of a Mother to Breastfeed Her Child,” the author explains the importance of
breastfeeding and warns of the consequences of neglecting it:
“If a mother refuses to breastfeed her child, she will suffer humiliation and hardship from having to hire a wet
nurse. She will also experience illnesses and fever due to neglecting her milk. Some women avoid breastfeeding
out of vanity, wishing to preserve their beauty — but this is ignorance and a grave sin.” (Ahmad, 2019)
This statement clarifies that the authors use of the term “obligation” (wajib) is not to be understood as a strict
legal requirement (taklifi hukum), but rather as a moral exhortation emphasising the importance and virtue of
breastfeeding. It reflects the authors concern for maternal duty and his desire to encourage mothers to uphold
the best practice for their children.
The authors approach harmonises religious reasoning with health awareness highlighting the physical,
emotional, and spiritual benefits of breastfeeding as a divinely ordained act of compassion and care.
CONCLUSION
Kitab Adab Perempuan contains moral guidance and ethical teachings relevant to women’s daily lives,
particularly mothers. The book demonstrates that the Malay community had long recognised the religious and
health significance of breastfeeding as early as the early 1900s. The authors discussions reveal a deep
understanding of maternal responsibility, spiritual awareness, and child welfare.
Most of the guidelines presented in the book align closely with modern medical and nutritional findings. The
Kitab presents breastfeeding not only as a biological act but as an expression of moral virtue and obedience to
divine instruction. The authors statement that breastfeeding is wajib (obligatory) should not be interpreted as a
strict legal requirement but rather as an emphatic encouragement (sunnah mu’akkadah) highlighting the
importance and benefits of breastfeeding for both mother and child.
Furthermore, breastfeeding serves as a means of strengthening the emotional bond between mother and child
while protecting infants from diseases and promoting holistic development. The ethical and practical advice in
Kitab Adab Perempuan remains relevant today, providing valuable insight for Muslim mothers, scholars, and
health practitioners who seek to integrate Islamic principles with maternal and child health practices.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
The authors acknowledge the financial and technical support for this Special Research Grant Scheme project
provided by Universiti Sultan Zainal Abidin (UniSZA) under the grant (UniSZA/2023/SRGS-FKI 1.0/03).
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