A Traditionally Noble Ritual but Weakened in its Basic Conception
As suggested by empirical data, widowhood rites retain a sacred dimension and are divinized in the collective
imagination. They aim to purify, protect, accompany, and reintegrate the widow into the community after the
spouse's death. These different objectives are well described in the classical anthropological literature on rites
of passage (Van Gennep, 1909; Turner, 1967), which identify these ritual sequences as excellent means of
managing ruptures and existential crises within society.
Yet, the obtained results demonstrate that these functions are now almost all corrupted and biased. Certainly,
the absence of common identity references and official regulatory authorities has led to libertine practices,
often manipulated to serve selfish individuals, thus allowing them to turn these moments into times for settling
family conflicts. The remarks enumerated by Geschiere (1995) regarding deviations during these practices
already reported this use of rites for vengeful purposes, especially in cases of notable absence of family
authorities. This then creates the ambiguity of customs discussed by Nzegwu in 2006.
A Rupture in Transmission: The Loss of a Collective Knowledge
The intergenerational discontinuity observed in the practice of widowhood rites highlights a severe disturbance
in the transmission of endogenous cultural knowledge. Young generations are often distant from traditional
reference authorities due to migratory movements in search of better living conditions, modern Western
schooling, and the various prevailing religions, notably Catholicism, Protestantism, and revivalist churches.
Thus, these new generations, lacking cultural benchmarks, no longer possess the knowledge and symbolic or
practical tools allowing them to correctly perpetuate the practice of the rites. This phenomenon of
deculturation evokes what some social science authors call "cultural dissonance" (Nyamnjoh, 2012), in which
old norms and values are no longer able to fit harmoniously within new social structures.
A contemporary adage said "words fly away, writings remain" to mention the solidity of written knowledge
against the challenge of time. The verbal and non-regulatory nature of the know-how and knowledge of
widowhood worsens the problem. Informants mentioned the absence of a library of customary archives and of
professionals in the field of rites, thus giving free access to Machiavellian and self-interested, sometimes
libertine and very mean manipulations that desacralize the rites, discredit their foundation, and destabilize
widows in the community. The absence of this collective memory is a powerful cry for the establishment of
urgent reflection on the modalities of endogenous restructuring of the rites, without however falling into a total
rejection of this cultural heritage.
The Decline of Community Mutual Aid: Between Isolation and Precariousness
Formerly, widowhood was unquestionably part of a context of strong family, community, and lineage
solidarity. Empirical data confirm that it was a time of collective mobilization around the widow, who was
supposed to be surrounded, accompanied, and supported. However, this socio-community function is gradually
eroding. The accounts highlight deviations towards isolation, loneliness, stigmatization, and sometimes even
social suspicion of incriminating the widow. This shift is intensified by economic and professional pressures
and the transformation of socio-family structures, particularly in urban settings.
Literature on gender and work (Kabeer, 1999; Chant, 2008) shows that widows are condemned to suffer a
double penalty: on one hand, the loss of emotional and institutional support, and on the other, the weakening of
their economic power. The obtained data further support this predisposition, demonstrating that due to the
ritual requirements of widowhood, namely the seclusion and duration to observe, widows with economic or
professional activities (traders, teachers, nurses, etc.) are forced to reduce or, in the worst case, to stop
completely, which is likely to cause their downfall.
Towards an Endogenous and Adaptive Rereading of the Rite
In view of the gap between the ritual requirements of widowhood and the realities experienced daily by
widows, this analysis invites an endogenous reform of widowhood. It would be a matter of opening up to new