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The Right of Custody (Hadanah) for Young Children of Interfaith
Couples
Fauzi Yusoh
1
, Khiral Anuar Daud
2*
, Mohd Farid Ibrahim
3
, Ahmad Tirmizi Taha
4
, Ahmad Shaharuddin
Tahar
5
Faculty of Islamic Contemporary Studies,University Sultan Zainal Abidin (UniSZA), Gong Badak
Campus, 21300 Kuala Nerus, Terengganu, Malaysia
*
Corresponding Author
DOI: https://dx.doi.org/10.47772/IJRISS.2025.930000052
Received: 10 December 2025; Accepted: 16 December 2025; Published: 26 December 2025
ABSTRACT
This study discusses the issue of the right of custody (hadanah) for young children of interfaith couples following
divorce. The title elaboration clarifies that this discussion centers on determining who has the greater right to
custody, particularly when one parent converts to Islam while the other remains in their original religion, with
reference to an incident during the time of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). The research problem
arises from the dispute over whether Islam is a mandatory condition for obtaining the right of hadanah over a
Muslim child, leading to significant differences of opinion among the schools of Islamic jurisprudence
(madhahib). The study's objectives are to analyze the differing views of the major schools of jurisprudence
(Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i, and Hanbali) regarding the condition of Islam for the right of hadanah, and to evaluate
the strength of each school's arguments and evidence to determine the most preponderant (rajih) and contextually
appropriate opinion. The methodology employed is a qualitative library-based study using a content analysis
approach on primary sources of jurisprudence such as authoritative classical texts and textual evidence (naqli ),
namely the Quran and Hadith, relied upon by each school. The study's findings reveal two main opinions. The
Hanafi and Maliki schools hold that Islam is not an absolute condition; a non-Muslim mother who is a dhimmi (a
protected non-Muslim citizen in an Islamic state) has the right to custody of a Muslim child, provided the child
is not yet mumayyiz (around the age of seven) and there is no fear of the child being influenced by the mother's
religion. However, the Shafi'i and Hanbali schools firmly maintain that Islam is a fundamental condition; the
right of hadanah is exclusively for a Muslim custodian to protect the child's faith (aqidah) and best interests.
The study concludes that the opinion of the Shafi'i school, which makes Islam a mandatory condition, is more
preponderant and suitable for application in the contemporary context to guarantee the preservation of the child's
religion, which is the highest priority, thereby protecting the Muslim child from exposure to elements that could
harm their faith.
Keywords: Grave Relocation, application, terengganu
INTRODUCTION
An incident concerning the right of child custody for an interfaith couple occurred during the time of the Prophet
Muhammad (peace be upon him). Among these incidents is the one narrated by Abu Dawud in his Sunan (al-
Sajastani, n.d., 1:267):
From Rafi' bin Sinan that he embraced Islam while his wife refused to embrace Islam. She came to the Prophet
(peace be upon him) and said, "My daughter, she is weaning or of similar age." Rafi' said, "My daughter." The
Prophet (peace be upon him) said to him, "Sit in one corner," and said to her, "Sit in another corner." The Prophet
(peace be upon him) then placed the girl between them and said, "Call her." The girl inclined towards her mother.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "O Allah, guide her." Then she inclined towards her father, and he took
her.
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When divorce occurs involving an interfaith couple and a dispute arises regarding the right to custody, the
question emerges: Is Islam a condition for obtaining the right of hadanah for interfaith couples? Jurists (fuqaha')
have differing opinions on this matter, among which are the following:
According to the Hanafi scholars, Islam is not a condition for a non-Muslim woman to obtain the right
of hadanah, provided she meets other necessary conditions such as being sane, free, trustworthy in religion, and
so on, regardless of whether she is Muslim or non-Muslim and whether she is the mother, grandmother, etc.,
except if the woman apostatizes Noor, Z. (2019); Nasir, N. M., Zin, N. M., & Sitiris, M. (2021); Firdaus, F.
(2018).
Therefore, a non-Muslim mother has the right to custody of a Muslim child, whether male or female. Their right
is equal to that of a Muslim. However, they must be a dhimmi residing under an Islamic state. Otherwise, the
right of hadanah cannot be granted to non-Muslims.
In the book al-Dur al-Mukhtar wa Rad al-Muhtar by Ibn 'Abidin, it is stated: "A dhimmi woman, even if she is
a Magian, is like a Muslim woman in obtaining the right of hadanah as long as the child does not recognize
religion, i.e., around the age of seven, because his/her Islam is established at that time, or there is no fear of the
child inclining towards the mother's religion, such as being taken to places of worship, etc. If that occurs, then
the right of hadanah should be revoked even if the child does not yet recognize religion."
They argue based on the aforementioned hadith narrated by Abu Dawud in his Sunan. Additionally, they argue
that what is required in hadanah is affection, gentleness, compassion, mercy, patience, and so on. These qualities
do not differ based on difference in religion (al-Zuhayli, 1994, Vol. 10, p. 7306).
However, their scholars place two important conditions for a non-Muslim woman to obtain the right of hadanah:
1. As long as the child does not recognize religion, i.e., until the age of seven.
2. There is no fear of the child inclining towards the mother's religion.
If either of the above conditions is absent, the non-Muslim wife loses the right of hadanah, and the right should
be given to the eligible Muslim according to the hierarchical order of those entitled to hadanah (Zaydan, n.d.).
The Maliki school holds an opinion similar to the Hanafi school, that Islam is not a condition for obtaining the
right of hadanah over a Muslim child. The mother has a greater right to custody, whether she is Muslim or non-
Muslim.
However, they state that if there is concern about the child being exposed to the non-Muslim mother's religion,
it becomes obligatory upon Muslims to supervise the mother until the end of the hadanah period, which is
puberty for males, after which the child is handed over to the father or his substitute, such as the grandfather,
paternal uncle, etc. As for female children, they remain with their mother until they marry.
Al-Dardir mentions in his book al-Sharh al-Kabir that Islam is not a condition for obtaining the right of hadanah,
whether the custodian is male or female. If there is fear of the child being exposed to harm, such as being served
alcohol or pork, etc., then the child should be placed under the supervision of a Muslim (Zaydan, 1994, 10:35).
As for the Shafi'i and Hanbali schools, they hold that Islam is an essential and primary condition for obtaining
the right of hadanah over a Muslim child (male or female). Therefore, the right of hadanah should be granted
only to Muslims, whether male or female. According to al-Nawawi, if one of the parents is non-Muslim, their
right to hadanah is invalidated because a non-Muslim cannot care for a Muslim child (al-Nawawi, n.d., 17:326).
They argue that the purpose of legislating hadanah is to safeguard the child's best interests (maslahah).
Therefore, there is no maslahah for a Muslim child to be in the care of a non-Muslim, as the child is exposed to
trials concerning their religion, which is a great harm (al-Sharbini, 1995, 5:195).
If the child is non-Muslim due to following the lineage of a non-Muslim father, a Muslim still has the right to
custody over that child.
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He also said: "If the mother is a slave or a non-Muslim, while the father is a Muslim, then the mother has no
right to custody over that child. If the mother is a free Muslim woman, she has the right to custody over a child,
whether the child is Muslim or not, as long as she does not marry."
As for the hadith stating that the Prophet (peace be upon him) gave the child a choice between staying with the
mother or the father during a divorce caused by differing religions, it has been abrogated (naskh). This is because
there is consensus (ijma') among Muslims that a Muslim child cannot be handed over to a non-Muslim, even if
it is the biological mother, as stated in the words of Allah the Almighty (Quran, al-Nisa' 4:141): "And Allah will
never grant the disbelievers a way over the believers."
Therefore, the right of hadanah should be given to the most entitled person among the child's Muslim relatives
according to the order established by Islamic law. If none is found, then the right of hadanah is given to a Muslim
who is not among the relatives. This is the strongest opinion within the Shafi'i school (al-Nawawi, n.d., 19:421-
422).
As for the Hanbali school scholars, they state that a non-Muslim has no right of hadanah over a Muslim child
because it leads to great harm, namely exposing the child to the custodian's religion, who will distance him/her
from Islam by teaching and raising him/her according to a non-Islamic religion (Yunus, n.d., 5:498).
After examining the arguments and evidence presented, as well as the resolution approaches taken by the schools
of jurisprudence, the author is of the opinion that the view of the Shafi'i school, which places Islam as a condition
for obtaining the right of hadanah over a Muslim child, is the strongest and most preponderant (rajih) compared
to other opinions, based on the evidence brought by that school.
Although according to the Hanafi school, Islam is not a condition for a non-Muslim to obtain the right
of hadanah over a Muslim child, they stipulate that the non-Muslim must reside in an Islamic state, referred to
as a dhimmi. Otherwise, the right cannot be granted to a non-Muslim to safeguard the child's best interests.
Therefore, the opinion of the Shafi'i school is appropriate and suitable for application in the current context,
where Muslims are exposed to elements contrary to Islam even if they grow up and are educated in a Muslim
environment, let alone if they grow up in a non-Muslim environment.
To safeguard the best interests and priority of religion, which is the foremost demand compared to other interests
and benefits, a Muslim child or a child with a blood relation to a Muslim should be placed under the care of
Muslims so that they may grow up and receive education in line with the requirements of Islam while being
protected from elements of sin and wrongdoing.
CONCLUSION
Based on the discussion, it can be concluded that the issue of child custody (hadanah) for interfaith couples
involves a deep consideration between maintaining natural familial bonds (such as a mother's affection) and the
principle of safeguarding the child's faith (aqidah) and religious best interests as the highest priority. Although
there are differing approaches among the schools of jurisprudence, an analysis of the arguments and evidence
indicates that the opinion of the Shafi'i (and Hanbali) school, which makes Islam a mandatory condition for
possessing the right of hadanah over a Muslim child, is stronger and more preponderant. This opinion aligns
with the objectives of Islamic law (maqasid al-shari'ah) in preserving religion (hifz al-din) and the contemporary
reality that exposes Muslim children to various influences that could endanger their faith if under the care of a
non-Muslim. Therefore, to ensure upbringing and education consistent with the demands of Islam, the right
of hadanah should be granted to a custodian who is Muslim, whether from among the closest relatives or an
appointed Muslim guardian. This decision reflects a commitment to prioritizing the protection of the child's
spiritual well-being and religious identity as a collective responsibility of the Muslim community.
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