Not Every Woman Must Be a Mother: Exploring Childfree Aspirations Among Young Malaysian Women

In Malaysia, ideas about womanhood are still closely tied to motherhood, yet a growing number of young women are beginning to question this expectation. This study explores how young Malaysian women in their early twenties understand and articulate their aspiration to remain childfree. Using a phenomenological approach, six unmarried women aged 23–24 were recruited through purposive sampling. Semi-structured interviews were conducted, and the data were analysed thematically. The participants described several reasons for leaning toward a childfree future, including the desire for personal autonomy, concerns about financial readiness, mental and emotional capacity, and the wish to focus on early career development. They also reflected on how cultural and gendered expectations shaped their thinking. Many shared experiences of stigma and pressure from family and the broader community, where motherhood is often viewed as a natural or expected milestone for women. Despite these challenges, participants saw their childfree inclination as a way to protect their well-being and maintain control over their life choices. Overall, the study sheds light on how young women navigate the tension between personal aspirations and traditional norms in Malaysia’s pronatalist environment. By centring their lived experiences, the findings contribute to broader discussions on reproductive autonomy, shifting gender expectations, and the evolving meaning of womanhood in contemporary Malaysian society.

Malaysian women; childfree aspirations; gender norms, motherhood, phenomenology

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