From Panoptic Control to Quiet Resistance: Navigating Gendered Childhoods and Emerging Agency in Rajshahi, Bangladesh

This qualitative study moves beyond documenting gendered disparities to examine the intricate interplay between patriarchal structures and children’s agency in shaping childhoods in Rajshahi, Bangladesh. Through fieldwork that involved 45 in-depth interviews with children, parents, teachers, and participant observations across urban, peri-urban, and rural settings, the study reveals how a powerful architecture of gender inequality is reproduced. This architecture is sustained through a gendered division of labor that functions as a tacit curriculum, an economic rationale framing sons as "appreciating assets" and daughters as "symbolic capital," and a panoptic system of honor (izzat) that enforces female conformity. However, to complicate a straightforward deterministic view, our research identifies one primary locus of tension: media consumption. The paper argues that television and social media constitute a contested terrain wherein patriarchal norms are simultaneously reinforced and subverted. Counter-narrative exposure breeds a critical agency in children that manifests not as overt rebellion but as "quiet resistance" in the form of clandestine aspirations, negotiated identities, and inconspicuous acts of non-conformity. The study concludes that Rajshahi childhood is not only a site for social reproduction but a dynamic and contested space wherein structures of inequality are actively negotiated and, in nascent ways, challenged.

Gendered childhoods, children’s agency

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